That title has nothing whatsoever to do with anything I am going to write....but it catches the attention of those who are on my wavelength :-p
Today I have had a day of realisations.
The first is that although something didn't turn out the way I had hoped or planned it doesn't mean it was a disaster or a waste of my time. Every experience is a learning curve. Every learning curve creates a new adventure. And that is what life is- An adventure....and when did you hear of an adventure story than ran smoothly without a hiccup?
The second is that being positive in negative situations really does make you feel better. That expression fake it 'til you make it really can work if you put in enough effort. Pretend to not care and eventually you won't. Pretend to smile and after a while you really will be smiling without having to try.
The third is that it is ok to be wrong sometimes and it is ok to make mistakes. Which is just as well because i think I have made a big mistake....its not too late to do something about it though and I shouldn't feel silly for at least trying.
The fourth is that when you find someone that loves you for who you are-mistakes, negativity, hiccups, failures, warts and all-that person is very special, and if sometimes you disagree....well maybe just agree to disagree because life is too short to argue. If someone really loves you for who you are and you love them back...make sure they know just how bloody much you do!
xxx
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